Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Blessings & Tithing


                As far back as I can remember, the leaders have promised that if a person has the faith to pay tithing, then “the Lord will open the windows of Heaven and pour out his richest blessings”.  Leaders repeat this promise over and over, in different permutations of the original revelation on tithing made by the leader Lorenzo Snow, who promised that if members had the faith to pay tithing, then rain would come to rescue the crops from drought.  Leaders talk about how you can’t afford not to pay tithing.  They give examples of people who paid tithing and were miraculously able to make ends meet.  They promise - over and over - that having the faith to pay your tithing will result in blessings.
                And since Mormons tend to be literal when interpreting the promises of their leaders, this creates an odd dynamic.  As we repeated, over and over, “The Church is perfect.  People aren’t.”  Since the Church is perfect - and the imperfection of people provide such an easy scapegoat - a lack of material blessings is assumed to be correlated with a lack of faith. 
                My parents were poor for many years.  For them, paying tithing was an extreme act of faith, as often the money that was paid to the Mormon Church was needed to feed the family.  And yet paying tithing didn’t result in more material wealth.  My parents struggled along, trying to make the pennies match up, while performing the requirements of Mormonism with diligence.  The faith of my parents - to pay tithing even when tithing was a struggle - is an awe-inspiring testament to their commitment. 
                If you look at the members that rank higher in hierarchy - bishopric, stake presidency, General Authorities, Presidency - you will notice that these leaders are notable more for their professional and financial success.  Thomas S. Monson, the current President, was an advertising executive and eventual general manager for Deseret News Press.  His first counselor, Henry B.Eyring, is a graduate of Harvard Business School and was a professor at Stanford, as well as the president of Ricks College.  His second counselor, Dieter F. Uchtdorf, was a German aviator and airline executive.  These men were part of the middle to upper class, with significant professional achievements, when they were recruited for leadership.  I have no doubt that there are many good and faithful men from modest backgrounds; however, these men do not seem to be reflected in the makeup of the authorities that are responsible for guiding the Mormon Church. 
                Within my own ward, the leaders who were never from the “ragged” families - the families that worked blue-collar jobs while following the command to have lots of children, even if you couldn’t afford them.  Most of the leaders selected were either college professors or white-collar professionals.  I didn’t notice much of a difference between the leaders and the poorer families in terms of their character or faith.  But I did notice a difference in which families were called to leadership positions. 
                For what it was worth, I don’t think the stigma was applied to me, even though I was from a poor family.  I was a bright student and enthusiastic about my studies.  There were a number of wonderful women that stepped in to support and guide me.  But with the oft-repeated promises of receiving blessings if you are faithful enough, there is the mindset that a lack of blessings correlates with a lack of faith.  

10 comments:

  1. This has always bothered me. And it's not only the LDS church that preaches that blessings are in the form of material things and so on. BUT it's the LDS church where you will hear stories of folks getting loans to pay tithing or paying tithing rather than feeding their family and then having to go the Bishop's Storehouse.

    What better way to get people's money though right? Start young and create this HUGE desire to want to go to temple, have their whole reputation dependent upon it once they reach adulthood... then once they are there, they must pay in order to go and not disgrace or shame their families by threatening that status. To find out someone is NOT temple worthy is almost as bad as all the babies that atheists eat. ;)

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    1. It is problematic; thanks for stopping by and commenting. :)

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  2. I just typed a long comment, and then it disappeared sigh. I will try to rewrite it tomorrow when my brain is less tired. I do think that tithing, callings, and the dissonance between the doctrine of Christ and the implementation of that doctrine, can be pretty stark. With the church welfare program thrown into the mix, experiences in different wards and stakes can be extremely variable.

    Thanks for a thoughtful place to start a conversation.

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    1. Thank you Julia - I hope that I was able to treat this subject with respect. (Now go to sleep!)

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  3. That the leaders always seemed to be successful businessmen bothered me too. The original disciples were certainly chosen from a different crowd.

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  4. Oh, the inspirational tithing stories we all could tell! My parents have one of when they were struggling students. I used to cling to those stories.

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  5. I am from the Philippines and an active mormon. Our challenges here are quite different. Most of the members are poor especially in the provinces.

    That that "mindset" you mentioned does exist and is part of a largely man-made culture in the Church that is not part of gospel culture. And that is the challenge. We'll never need the gospel if life on earth is ideal.

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  6. My husand was a blue collar worker and we were poor. He was a bishop and served in a kind and loving manner. I testify that the "windows of heaven" do open when we pay our tithing, even when they windows are spiritual and not financial.

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